I'd decided a while previously (about a year before) that I wanted to propose.. but I wavered over the course of the year and never found a way to engineer the two of us being together on the 29th.. Eventually I gave up. I knew we'd get to engagement eventually, but the plan just wasn't coming together.
It wasn't until about 9pm on the 29th of February that I thought of the way! Because of Kirks job, we weren't able to spend many weekday evenings together before moving in together. He has to wake up before 6 every day, and as such goes to bed quite early.. It made it difficult!
I've posted a few pictures on a porn forum (scandalous, I know!) and I decided that was the way to do it! Kirk's always been very supportive of my desire to be naked in public.. in fact he loves it! This idea of getting topless and writing the proposal across my chest seemed very fitting for us.. something you may come to realise as you get to know us! Anyhow, to cut a long story short, it worked! My parents knew before it happened.. his still don't know today.. which is beginning to get me down.
But, we're not looking to actually get married for a good couple of years, and I have a feeling that as soon as the word 'engaged' is used, they'll be looking to start planning for about 18 months hence.. and we're not looking to marry quite that soon. I'd like 2015 or 2016 at the latest. Nevertheless, I'm planning to drag him to a jewellers tomorrow so I can get at least some ideas of sizing for his ring. I'd like to buy it, but I'm not sure I can afford it this month. :(
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